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"Parents based in North London seeks an remarkable and experienced educator to guide their youngest child on his first steps to growing into an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this advertisement, you might readily miss the term "beginning" as simple a turn of phrase.

Yet, it might be the most significant part of this distinctive job advert, as it attempts to recruit a teacher for a one-year-old.

Hundreds of responses have now been sent in since the anonymous family published their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the listing has received attention across the media, with many wondering why?

Forward-Thinking Method

Adam Caller, chief executive of Tutors International, which is helping the family in their quest, explained that notwithstanding early doubt, he considered the idea "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they recognized the atypical character of their demand, and how immature their son is.

But, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that point "cultural influence had already become established".

What precisely does the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", he answered. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He stated the older sibling had picked up "very nuanced, unspoken signals" from the family, and had adopted their cultural norms. The family explained to Adam they hoped to prevent the same situation to repeat itself with their younger child.

The intention: To bring in a British tutor, who must speak with standard English accent, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Subtle Influence

"A great deal of the learning at the beginning here is rather acquired indirectly," stated the expert.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are aiming the child will adopt the UK customs they aim to cultivate.

He noted the tutor had to be somebody who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be performing things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family informed him the chosen tutor should ideally also have understanding of or passion in riding, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of interests.

More than that though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to register the child on a selection of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an musical instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, assisting their son become a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and provide access.

"Considering the pros and cons of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he comments.

But, despite all this guidance in "English culture", might the child adopt what is termed cultural bias from the multicultural family he resides with regardless?

"Absolutely", said the CEO. "The family understand this might not succeed, but they've just taken the view of, 'we should try and let's go as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he stated.

Impractical

Several in the tutoring industry who share similar concerns.

An education leader, chief executive of an educational organization, who supplies personal educators, stated that "the process of embracing two identities, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

He wrote that he had moved from Asia to the UK at the period of childhood, and had been educated understanding and embodying two backgrounds. He went on to study at Cambridge University.

"The notion that a single person can act as a living vessel of English culture, someone who can possibly transplant the attributes of a British gentleman upon a 12-month-old child, seems to me idealistic and unfeasible," he commented.

"In my experience, having a typically UK tutor from early childhood will not instantly achieve the outcome they hope for.

"I did not have such a figure, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to experience several of the opportunities they desire for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, personal identity cannot be forced from the outside influences; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Of course, Britishness is something Adam hopes can be educated – and sold.

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